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Why Have Soul Satisfying Sex
and What is it, You Ask?
Author: Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Any activity that is
soul-satisfying is something
that nurtures our soul, makes us feel whole,
complete, satisfied, euphoric,
deeply connected with the
universe, God, or whatever
your spiritual connections. So,
soul-satisfying sex is sex
that provides us with these
wonderful feelings.
Soul-satisfying sex can only occur with people we
are connected to emotionally, intellectually, physically and
spiritually. This includes our
connections to ourselves. If
you are connected to that
person on all these levels then the more
satisfying the sex will be.
Sure
we can have good sex with
someone we are only attracted
to on a physical level, but that is
not fulfilling for our souls.
It will only satisfy us
physically and leave us empty
emotionally
and spiritually. We usually
feel like we are missing
something in our life and unfulfilled.
The thing we are missing is
deep connections to another person
and soul satisfaction.
Although I personally am not comfortable
with casual sex and would much
rather go without than be with
someone I知
not
connected to, it
does not mean it is bad or
wrong if you have sex without
it. There may be times in your
life when you are not able to
find a soul-fulfilling connection,
and still feel the need to
meet your sexual needs, and that is okay
as long as it is always respectful and both parties
are comfortable with that, but
I believe striving for deep
connections should be the
goal.
The deeper our connections
with the person we are having
sex with, the more exciting,
satisfying and ecstatic our
sex will be. You will experience sex
that takes you to a higher
level of consciousness and cements you
to your lover. Not only will
you have a physical orgasm, but
you will have a body, mind and
spirit orgasm, which is an
orgasm like no other. You will
experience total euphoria,
complete bliss and heights of
passion like you never experienced
before. Penetration becomes a
union of the souls. The ultimate
spiritual high is achieved
when engaging in soul-satisfying
sex.
Deep connections with other
people may be very
frightening. It means we can be hurt and we
may be afraid to expose our
true selves to others. Thus hopping
from partner to partner can become an easy way to avoid
intimacy and the risk of being
hurt, but ultimately what happens
when doing this is that you
short
change yourself from
experiencing the deepest, most
passionate, mind blowing sex one can find
as well as profound complete
satisfaction and fulfillment
emotionally, physically, and spiritually. You will prevent
yourself from reaching your highest potential sexually and
as a human being.
Another component of
soul-satisfying sex is
communication. In order to really connect with
another we need to
communicate. In
order to communicate we need
to have some type of a relationship. The more we get
to know someone the more we
share of ourselves. Great sex
requires communication. Most
of us find it difficult to communicate
intimately with a stranger. We
need to foster a relationship
before we communicate too
much. Therefore the deeper our
connections with our lover the
freer we will be to communicate our
desires, needs, wants,
fantasies etc. Thus the more two lovers
understand each other the
better they will be able to satisfy one
another. The more we
communicate the better the sex will be and the
connection will deepen. The deeper the connection the more
we will communicate. Thus it becomes reciprocal with each
feeding the other. The greater
the intimacy, the better the sex
and this will create bonds so
intense that desires for each
other and desire and
willingness to please each other will be
raging.
One of the most wonderful
aspects about soul-satisfying
sex is that it has no limits. When
two people continue to deepen
their
intimacy, connections and
bonds to one another they can
always reach a new height of ecstasy
that was not reached before.
About the author:
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed is a
writer, educator,
therapist/advisor/coach and
holistic health consultant specializing in Erotic
Communication, Sexual
Intimacy, Soul
Satisfying Sex as well as
issues of living with chronic
illness, chronic pain or disability.
Sexuality services can be
found at
http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul
and Chronic illness services can be found at
http://www.holistichelp.net
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