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Fantastic Positions for Her
and Him
Author: Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Using a variety of positions
when having sex can serve many
purposes. With each position
we can achieve different
goals.
Some positions increase
intimacy while others provide
us with
deep penetration, stimulation
of the G-spot or unleashing of
animalistic passions. Some may
be used to prolong an erection
or
extend our lovemaking session,
while others can provide us
with
a quickie. Some positions are
more pleasurable for a male
and
others are more pleasurable
for the female.
The best lovemaking session
will incorporate a variety of
positions at just the right
time for each partner as if
dancing
in perfect synchronicity.
Although there may be times
now and
then when we want to focus on
one particular position such
as
when we are experimenting with
something new or if we just
want
a quickie.
The following three positions
in this particular order is a
great scenario that meets the
needs for both male and female
and
helps us achieve numerous
goals in one session.
1. Missionary- By beginning
with missionary this builds us
up to
the next phase of excitement.
It provides us with a lot of
intimacy because in this
position we can look into one
another’s
eyes, kiss, or touch each
other’s face. It provides us
with a
sense of closeness and
heightens our desire. With
some
adjustments and maneuvers of
legs and torso we can achieve
different areas of
stimulation. 2. Woman on
Top-After reaching a
plateau in the missionary
position the female can then
gracefully roll the male over
on his back and mount him.
Woman
on top position gives the
female complete power in
satisfying
herself. On top she can
stimulate her clitoris and her
G-spot
with proper maneuvering. This
position also provides the
male
with excitement of watching
his woman be in control and
the
opportunity to observe her
facial expressions while she
climaxes, which can be very
arousing for him. The woman
can
either slide back and forth
slowly or ride him like a wild
horse. 3. Doggy Style- Once
the woman has satisfied
herself, the
male can then gracefully move
behind his woman and enters
her
from behind. After watching
and feeling his lover climax
he will
probably be on the edge of
orgasm himself. Doggy style
switches
the power over to the male. He
is now in complete control of
the
pace and depth. He will also
have a nice view of his
lover’s
buttocks and of his penis
sliding in and out of her.
This
position allows for very deep
thrusting and penetration,
which
will have him at climax very
quickly.
By becoming a connoisseur of
positions we can increase the
variety of sensations we
experience, enhance our level
of
satisfaction and pleasure and
be viewed as a skilled and
exciting lover by our partner.
It can help us maintain a
sense
of newness and excitement in
the relationship and maintain
the
sizzle and spark.
About the author:
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed. is a
writer, advisor, educator and
coach
specializing in sexual
intimacy, erotic communication
and
keeping the fire burning in
your relationship. A FREE E-zine
packed full of tips, advice
and erotic stories can be
found at
her website. http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul
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