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Selfless Behaviors
Author: Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
A good way to keep the passion
alive in a relationship is for
both partners to make a
conscious effort to engage in
selfless
behaviors. Selfless behaviors
are behaviors that are done
solely
for the pure satisfaction of
the other. Simply because we
desire
to give them pleasure and make
them happy.
By engaging in selfless
behavior it makes the other
person feel
important and special. They
will feel deeper appreciation
for
you. It promotes feelings of
closeness and intimacy. More
than
likely when you engage in
selfless behavior you will end
up
receiving a reward, because
your partner will be so
pleased and
appreciative they will want to
reciprocate.
Therefore when both partners
do this for one another on a
regular basis it creates a
reciprocal circle of passion
and
intimacy and keeps the fires
burning.
Of course selfless behaviors
can and should be in all parts
of
the relationship, but for the
purpose of this discussion we
are
focusing on sexual selfless
behaviors.
Some good selfless sexual
behaviors to give your man:
-place
mirrors around the bedroom so
he can see you give him oral
or
watch you slide down over his
shaft. Most men are voyeurs at
heart. They love to watch.
-give him an unexpected
quickie (men
love quickies) -give him
unexpected oral in an
unexpected place
such as in the car or at work
(always swallow) -masturbate
for
him
Some good selfless sexual
behaviors to give your woman:
-caress
your woman with words before,
during and after sex (with the
right words you can have your
woman weak in the knees and
full
of desire) -give your woman
some special foreplay and
afterplay
(women love it when you adore
their body) -devote an evening
to
being an oral connoisseur for
your woman -romance your woman
and
remember that how you treat
your woman outside the bedroom
is
very important as to what will
occur in the bedroom.
About the author:
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed. is a
writer, educator, advisor and
coach
specializing in sexual
intimacy, erotic communication
and
keeping the fire burning in
your relationship. A FREE E-zine
packed full of advice, tips
and erotic stories to keep the
sizzle in your relationship
can be found ather website.
Sex and
The Soul http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul
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