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Title:
5 Questions Men Want To Ask
Women ....... But Daren't!!
Author: Chris Towland
Article:
There's just loads of things
us men want to know about
women
..... what they think ......
what they like ..... what they
don't like ......... why our
chat up lines don't work
......and
so on ......
Unfortunately, there's even
more reasons why we can't,
won't
......... or DAREN'T ask them
and so we just plod on with
our
lives in the great
unknowing......... always
wondering.
When I asked the male
subscribers to my dating
newsletter what
questions they always wanted
answered by the fairer sex
there
were a number of questions
that were repeated again and
again
and again! When I saw this
knowledge was being sought
after by
so many .......... but being
found by so few I made my
decision
.........
ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH
.................. We deserved
to know the
answers!!!! We NEEDED to know
the answers!
So my quest began, and armed
with pad and pen, bullet proof
vest
and perhaps just a little 'dutch
courage' I went into battle.
Here are the questions I posed
for you and a general
concensus
of the answers:
1. What attracts you to a man?
A. Without a doubt one answer
that reared it's head quite a
few
times was 'Confidence'. Women
seem to be very attracted to
someone who is (or at least
appears to be) full of
confidence.
After that, the girls I spoke
to were really looking for
someone
who acted just like they did.
For example, a quiet and shy
girl
will generally not be looking
for a 'life and soul of the
party'
type whereas a real party girl
will be most interested in a
man
who looks like he can really
enjoy himself. The best advice
seems to be ......... if you
find a girl you're attracted
to,
take a good look at the way
she acts (as well as her
attitude)
and adjust your own actions so
that you match.
2. How much do a man's look
matter to a woman?
A. On first impressions a good
looking man will obviously
catch
a girl's eye but I'm assured
that this is generally just an
initial, superficial reaction.
Time after time I was told
"look
at so and so's boyfriend
...... he's hardly a
stunner!". It
seems that rather than looks,
it's whether you're funny,
trustworthy, intelligent and
kind that really matters to a
woman. Note: This wasn't true
for everyone I questioned. One
girl wouldn't be interested in
a man unless his shoes
sparkled
........ and he didn't have
small hands!!
3. Are there any chat up lines
that actually work?
A. I guess we all really know
the answer to this one? No was
pretty much a unanimous
response ......... although a
hunky Mel
Gibson lookalike could
probably still get away with
the
cheesiest line going! I'm told
that we should definitely
forget
the 'Your eyes look like stars
fallen from the skies' type of
line and try something with a
greater chance of success such
as
a witty comment about the bar
you're in or just a casual
comment
that simply serves to arouse
her curiosity.
4. Are Bars and Clubs the best
places to search for a
girlfriend?
A. Most of the girls
questioned said that they had
been on dates
after being asked out in a bar
or club. However, most
preferred
totally different venues when
looking for their ideal mate.
Libraries and bookshops rated
highly (looking for a man with
intelligence?), as did
supermarkets, friend's parties
and
strangely, trendy video shops.
Incidentally, the best
information I've found on
where you should look to find
your
ideal date is the 'Busy
Person's Dating Guide'. There
are some
great ideas that most people
would never even think of. The
guide can be found at:
http://www.dating-tips-online.com/bookoffer.htm
5. How do I know if a girl
who's flirting with me is
really
interested?
A. The answer here seems to be
........ watch and wait. A
woman
who is flirty by nature will
usually be the same with every
man
she's in contact with. I'm
told that generally we should
assume
she's interested in us but not
get too dragged in until
you've
seen her in conversation with
at least another couple of
men. If
she's just as touchy feely
with them as she was with you
then
you've got your answer. Also,
keep a look out for positive
signs
....... If you're in a group
situation, notice whether she
makes eye contact with you
more than anyone else and
whether she
goes out of her way to stand
or sit near you. Above all
........
don't immediately think that
she's just flirty with
everyone
...... she may be really
interested in YOU!!
Got any more questions you
always wanted to ask but
daren't? My
embarrassment levels have been
reduced now ......... and to
be
honest I got quite a kick out
of it so please, send me more
questions and I'll go into bat
for you again. Send your
questions to
questions@dating-tips-online.com
with a subject
heading of 'Questions to
Women'. I promise I'll get
them
answered and (if they're clean
enough) include them in a
special
no-holds-barred report and
send you a free copy.
Chris Towland
About the author:
Chris is the editor of
www.Dating-Tips-Online.com -
one of the
internet's largest free
collections of tips and advice
relating
to love and dating. In
addition, Chris's dating
newsletters are
read and enjoyed by more than
10,000 subscribers. If you've
enjoyed this article then a
visit to Dating Tips Online is
highly recommended:
http://www.dating-tips-online.com
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