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The
Best Way to Pick Up a Girl
By Paul
Kyriazi
How to Live the James Bond
Lifestyle
http://www.BondLife.com
You see her across the room.
Ah, so attractive. But nobody
to
introduce her to you.
"Ah, I'll do a James Bond
on her," you
think. Now what was Bond's
first words to Pussy Galore?
"I
must be dreaming." No,
that won't work. How about
singing
"Underneath the Mango
Tree" to her as Bond did
to Honey Rider
in "Dr. No". Ah? No!
Well, what's left? You'll just
have to go up and talk to her,
if it's a situation where you
won't see her again. But it's
always safe to assume that she
has a boyfriend that can
squeeze
the stuffings out of a gold
ball. That aside, take a
chance
and make polite conversation.
What's the worst that can
happen.
She says, "I'm sorry, I'm
not available." and you
save the
time and money of a date with
her. Like George Burns says,
"When a beautiful woman
says "no" to me,
it's a relief.
If you know that you will see
her again, like at your
university,
your job, or working at a
restaurant, you can have
another shot
at her and use the shy man's
approach to getting a date.
"You farm boys don't make
a pitch, you just shy your way
into
position," Ann Margaret
says to Pat Boone in
"State Fair".
Okay, here it is. Instead of
asking her to dinner or out on
a
date which has romance
intended, get some tickets to
a concert
or event first, and then with
tickets in hand say, "I
just
happened to have tickets to
this event. If you'd like to
go
with me, I'd be happy to take
you." This way the
subject is
the event. Talk about the
person singing at the concert,
instead of if the two of you
could hit it off or not. She
can
easily say yes or no, or ask
more questions about you or
the
time and place of the event.
She doesn't have the pressure
of
turning you down, so she can
just turn the event down and
that
will be that. And if by chance
she can't make that date, but
is interested in you, she can
start talking about going out
another time.
I've strongly suggested this
"ticket" technique
to both men and
women who are infatuated with
someone at work, or at shop,
or
restaurant, and have no idea
how to make an approach. If
the
person is available, they
usually say yes to an
invitation.
After all, it's just going to
an event. It's not really a
date.
I used this "ticket"
technique in college to ask
out a beautiful
stranger. I was very shy, but
was "in love" from a
distance so
I had to take some kind of
scary attraction. Her name was
Cindy
and I often saw her in the
student lounge surrounded by
guys.
It took weeks of watching her
before I could catch her
walking
alone, and ask her if she'd
like to go see the reserved
seat
Cinerama showing of
"Grand Prix". She
said, "Well, I don't
know you, but if you come and
talk to me sometimes and I get
to know you, then maybe."
So in the next days I made an
attempts at getting in a few
words
with her as she talked with
her friends. Then I found out
she
was taking the film
appreciation class that I had
taken a
semester earlier. So I pushed
the teacher to show my new
16mm
action film in the class that
she was in. He fiqured I had a
secret motive because he said
he'd show it in the morning
class,
but I said it had to be shown
in the afternoon class (the
one
Cindy was in). Finally, he
agreed.
I not only directed the film,
but had a part in it where I
used
my newly learned karate and
hoped she would be impressed.
The
film went over great with the
class cheering and applauding.
As she was leaving the class I
said to her, "Well, do
you know
me well enough now?" She
said, "To go out with
you? I replied,
"Yes." She smilled
and nodded her head yes.
So don't "ask her
out". Don't "take
her to dinner". Get some
tickets, and maybe she'll
answer you like Cameron Diaz
does in
"Charlie's Angels".
"Tickets? I love
tickets!"
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Paul Kyriazi - "How to
Live the James Bond
Lifestyle"
http://www.BondLife.com
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