How
to Choose the Perfect
Christmas Gift for Her
by Susan Dunn, MA
Clinical Psychology |
COULD YOU USE ONE LESS
THING TO WORRY ABOUT?
It’s that time of year
again, time to choose
the Christmas gift for
the woman you love.
Which one are you? Which
Santa Claus is going to
get cookies and milk and
which one is going to
sleep on the couch?
·Fred’s apprehensive.
The last several
occasions Beth has ended
up really angry with his
gift choices, for
reasons he doesn’t
quite understand, but
he’s a guy, he’ll
figure it out. Fred
should be apprehensive.
He’s about to do the
same thing again, make
the same mistake, get
the same result, only,
as you know, when it
comes to your wife, it
isn’t the “same,”
it gets worse.
·Arturo’s got it
knocked. He’s enjoyed
his new power lathe so
much, he knows Maria
will love getting a
cuisinart, instead of
having to chop things by
hand.
·Vladimir has read the
"How to Choose the
Perfect Christmas Gift
for Her," and has
learned how to figure
out what Katya really
likes. Of course he
could ask, but he likes
to thrill her with nice
surprises and he’s
getting very good at it.
The skills outlined in
the ePamphlet increased
his skill in figuring
out how to please the
woman he loves. When
they’re being
intimate, she’ll say
to him sometimes, “How
did you know that’s
what I wanted?”
·Benny’s not worried
at all. He’s sending
his secretary out to do
the shopping for his
wife. It’s a very
smart and logical thing
to do, he thinks.
Anyway, he’s more
worried about why he
didn’t get the
promotion at work, and
why his review said he
needs to improve his
“soft” skills, his
Emotional Intelligence.
·Edward’s tired of
trying to please and is
in denial. He keeps
saying he’ll go
shopping and do it right
this year, not do what
he usually does –
putting it off till the
last minute, then
running out and grabbing
something. She won’t
like it anyway; she
never does. Besides,
it’s the end of the
year, and he hasn’t
made his insurance sales
quota and he’s worn
out worrying about what
he ought to be doing in
that area. He kept
meaning to do it right
this year, but here it
is, November …
The holidays pressure
every area of our life.
Take a moment to think
about what’s going on,
and to organize yourself
for the coming holidays.
Get some EQ coaching if
you need help with
getting organized,
coping with the
holidays, managing the
family get-togethers,
and so forth.
As I say in my ePamphlet,
"How to Choose the
Perfect Christmas Gift
for Her," this is a
relationship skill that
can be learned, and will
benefit you in all areas
of your life.
And why not make it your
New Year’s resolution
to take the Don’t
Disappoint Her Again™
EQ learning program.
Everyone needs to be
good to themselves for
the holidays, number one
priority, and men have a
special burden of
pressure this time of
year – unless you
learn how to be
successful at it. You
have choices.
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| About
the Author |
| ©Susan
Dunn, MA Clinical
Psychology, cEQc, The EQ
Coach™, http://www.susandunn.cc
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