Penis
Size Concerns
by Cynthia Perkins,
M.Ed. |
I
find it deeply
disturbing that I see
massive amounts of
advertisements across
the net for penis
enlargement. What is
most disturbing is the fact that people who
desire to make money are
preying on one of
men’s biggest
vulnerabilities and
fears to simply make
money. In addition to that they
are promoting an
unhealthy, inaccurate
perception in our
society that having a
really big penis is one
of the most important factors to
sex, relationships and
women. This simply is
not true.
This massive campaign to
make money is making men
feel inadequate and
uncomfortable. It is
falsely promoting a view
that a big penis is what makes a man
desirable. It is setting
up an ideal and
expectations for men
that are really
impossible to live up
to. The average size of a penis is 5-7
inches, some people are
bigger than this, and
some people are smaller
than this. Whatever you
have been born with, that is the way
that nature intended it
and therefore it is
adequate and
satisfactory.
These continual
advertisements are also
giving men the
inaccurate perception
that they must increase
their penis size because
that is what women want. This is
absurd. What is most
important to a woman is
what kind of lover you
are, what kind of person
you are and
how you treat her. Being
unselfish and meeting
her needs sexually and
emotionally will make
you a great lover in her
eyes. If you have a penis that 10 inches
long and you are selfish
or don’t know how to
meet your woman’s
needs then your size is
completely irrelevant. You do not need a big
penis to be an
incredible lover and
satisfy your woman. Yes,
for some women more
girth and length do feel
incredibly good, but
there are many ways to
achieve this with her
lover.
If she does enjoy the
feel of more girth and
length than you have
been endowed with or if
you both want to play
and experiment then you can always add
something such as a
dildo, vibrator or even
something like a
zucchini out of the
fridge to give her the
added sensation. Doing these
things together will
enhance the experience
for both of you. Using
one of these options on
her vaginally while stimulating her clitoris
orally will give her
exquisite pleasure.
Adding a variety of
positions and being
adventurous such as
doing it in a
new location will also
be very pleasurable. You
can also purchase a
penis ring (cock ring)
from most any adult toy
store to add to your sexual adventure. The
penis ring placed along
the base of the penis
restricts the flow of
blood out of the penis
and can increase size
and hardness. It can also
prolong the erection.
Many men find that they
experience a more
intense pleasurable
orgasm with the use of a
penis ring
But most important to
remember is that
intercourse is only one
way of satisfying a
woman. The majority of
women cannot orgasm with
intercourse alone anyhow
regardless of how big
your penis is.
Pleasuring your woman
with your hands and your
mouth can be just as
satisfying, if not more
so, than intercourse.
Being attentive to your
woman’s body and mind
will enhance her
experience. Making your woman feel, special,
cherished, appreciated
and desired will make
sex great for her.
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| About
the Author |
Cynthia
Perkins, M.Ed. is a
writer, advisor,
educator and coach
specializing in sexual
intimacy, erotic
communication and
keeping the fire burning
in your relationship. A
FREE E-Zine packed with
tips, advice and erotic
stories to help keep the
sizzle in your
relationship can be
found at her website.
http://www.holistichelp.net/sexandsoul
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