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Meeting Women Takes Awareness
and Preparation
By
Mike Pilinski
Want to know a pivotal secret
of the mating & dating
game? It's
that women plan, practice and
prepare for this contest from
a
very young age, and
(surprise!) are flat-out
*contemptuous* of
those men who refuse to play
their expected role.
Sad but true. Women put
countless hours into prepping
for the
competition between the
sexes... hair, makeup, style
and look,
clothing, etc. etc. They burn
half their disposable income
on
just about anything they can
dream up that makes them more
attractive to men. Guys, on
the other hand, typically put
minimal effort into making
themselves attractive to
women...
other than trying to stay
within shouting distance of
the latest
clothing trend, I suppose. For
the most part, they choose to
spend their time involved in
sports or hobbies. That's
because
most of us figure
attractiveness in men has to
do mostly with
good looks and money -- beyond
that the workings of the
female
mind are totally unfathomable.
So why even waste time
pondering it?
Except that this lack of
knowledge eventually returns
to bite us square in the ass!
How? When we attempt to PICK
UP WOMEN -- *that's* when our
utter
cluelessness becomes horribly
apparent! Women have been
studying
boys since they were
teenagers. While we're out
playing video
games and practicing our foul
shooting -- they're getting
together and debating flirting
strategies with their
girlfriends, figuring out how
to communicate to all the cute
boys using body language, etc.
etc. In other words, they're
actually putting some *effort*
into the process! They're
learning how to play the game
of seduction from their own
unique
female perspective, and they
are becoming BETTER at it
every day.
Not only does our lack of
knowledge put us at a distinct
disadvantage, it acts as a
complete TURN-OFF to a lot of
women.
This is especially true of
women who've REALLY polished
their
skills to a high level. They
hate guys who try to fake
their way
through the meeting and
seduction process. And they
can smell a
phoney from far across a
crowded room, trust me.
Can you see now why you might
be having so much trouble
determining what women want
from guys? You can't be good
at
something that you've put so
little effort into becoming
practiced at! There's no shame
in lacking any of these skills
either. The Art of Seduction
does NOT come naturally to
anyone
-- we all must strive to
observe women and try to
really
understand how they're
reacting to our presentation
of ourselves
as men. And then comes the
hard part... we have to LEARN
FROM
THE FEEDBACK (mistakes!) and
make the appropriate changes
in our
behaviors to get the results
we're after.
This is where a lot of guys
goof up. Learn ? Change?
Blaaah!
Because we're all
fundamentally lazy by nature,
we just want to
settle as quickly as possible
on some kind of
"move" that works
for us (at least once in a
while) and then just WORK IT
TO DEATH. I guess this beats
practicing and modifying our
behaviors
based upon what we see, feel
and -- well... all that other
friggin' WORK!
Well, this approach might pan
out okay guys who have great
natural attractors working for
them... a handsome face, great
athletic body, the offbeat
"artist's"
personality or whatever --
but there's a lot of shy,
ordinary men who lack the
natural
ability to meet women simply
because they failed to develop
any
'game'. For *them*, the best
route to success lies in
learning
how to take on women in their
own home court. And where's
that?...
In the deepest recesses of the
female subconscious.
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About the author:
Mike Pilinski is the author of
"Without Embarrassment:
The
Social Coward's Totally
Fearless Seduction
System"... a unique
method of meeting girls that
will have you making up for
wasted
time spent living in shy-guy
hell from the very first
moment you
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