Triggering
Automatic Female Lust
by Mike Pilinski |
Contrary to what you see
every week on 'Sex and
the City', women are the
complete opposite of men
in that, the more
*anonymous* the sexual
encounter, the LESS
gratifying they find it
to be. Unlike the
fictional uber-slut
Miranda, satisfying sex
does not begin and end
with the quest to find
someone new to have an
orgasm with. For the
vast majority of women,
the MORE connected they
feel to their partner,
the more overwhelming
the total sexual
experience is for them.
Just the reverse of
typical male thinking,
right? Men are intensely
turned on by the thought
of having sex with a
woman for that very FIRST time, or by
scoring a one-night
stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps
fantasizing about being
in a porno movie and having wanton sex
with dozens of hot women
he hardly knows. The common link
between all these
scenarios is that
there is NO emotional
bonding involved. Hell,
there's hardly even an exchange of names!
For the man, the more
anonymous the sex the more *exciting*
the idea of the
conquest.
How the two genders make
use of (and even
exploit) this knowledge of each
other's romantic
weakness, however, is an
entirely DIFFERENT
story.
Women know exactly how
to turn men on by
manipulating this hardwired 'quirk' in
their character that
absolves them of the need to actually know
anything about a woman
who has triggered his desire to
mate. How? Simply by
pushing this uniquely male
"anonymous
sex" button long
and often... by acting
sexy AND remaining
emotionally aloof at the
same time. The stripper, the table
dancer, the whore. The
molten hot stranger. Any persona will do --
and all are quite useful
when their design is seduction!
Men, on the other hand,
seem mostly clueless
about how to turn the tables and pull off
the same trick. In fact,
the prevailing feeling is that female
lust is such a
mysterious and
unfathomable 'holy grail' so rarely
encountered in real life
that it's taken on a kind of mythical
quality. I guess some
women just have it for
certain men... and not
for others, and there's
no understanding the reasons why.
But can female lust be
triggered by the
deliberate actions of a man? I say absolutely
yes. Women get sexually
turned on just as men do of course, but
-- owing to differences
in reproductive biology -- by a
completely different set
of mental processes. Men
go for a VISUAL look
that suggests
youthfulness and thus
fertility. But females aren't
interested in a man's
age so much because males remain virile well
into the later part of
their lifespan.
What they look for,
instead, are signs of
male POWER.
You see, women possess a
deeply-rooted
pre-intellectual
*instinct* which compels
them to submit
themselves for copulation in the
presence of what they
sense to be a DOMINANT MALE. They
cannot help feeling like
this -- despite the fact that the modern
woman manages to
suppress the urge to act on these feelings
most of the time (but,
not always...). So when a man learns how to
project the most
subtlest of gestures, actions and attitudes
that suggest he's a
"dominant
male", he can force a woman's
subconscious mating
desires to become aroused WHETHER SHE
LIKES IT OR NOT.
And some of them won't
like it a bit. She may
get upset
because you've forced
her to experience a
potent feeling which she may feel compelled
to conceal with the
workings of her more rational mind. And yet
when a woman consents to
have sex with a man who has set
off these automatic
desires in her, she stands to enter into the
hottest, most fulfilling
sensual experience
that it is possible for
her to have. And she
knows it.
...AND she's also
frightened of it --
because once unleashed
in this way, it can be
difficult to stem the
cascade of all-consuming
passion. She risks
taking the kind of
social and romantic chance that only happens
a precious few times in
her life. Can she allow herself to
become addicted to a man
who can make her see stars?
By learning to adopt the
actions and attitudes of
the dominant male, it is possible to
create these sort of
emotional disturbances in women at
will. Almost any girl
that you can manage to talk to in a
SPECIFIC sort of way can
have her "lust triggers" ignited
like a blow torch. And
when the ability to
seduce becomes more a skill
than mere luck, your
chances of suffering the humiliation of being
rejected vanish too. Now
you have done more than learned to act
the part of a dominant
male, you have *become* one. And
truthfully, there's no
real difference.
Because in this game,
acting is BEING.
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| About
the Author |
Mike
Pilinski is the author
of "Without
Embarrassment", a
new e-book designed to show
men how to develop
unique psychological defenses
to protect themselves
from ever having to fear being rejected
again. Visit
http://www.highstatusmale.com
and pick up a FREE copy
of the 25 page
Mini-Course "The
Three Keys to Seducing Any
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