Decorate
Your Love Life
by Cynthia Perkins,
M.Ed. |
Christmas time, Winter
Solstice or whatever
holiday you celebrate
provides you with an
abundance of ways to
have fun with your
partner and spice things
up in the bedroom or
whatever room you like.
With all the gift giving
and decorating, you can
use this as an
opportunity to decorate
your love life.
To give your lover a
real treat, you can wrap
your naked self in
wrapping paper or a big
red bow or cover your
birthday suit with a
variety of small bows
strategically placed and
lie underneath the Xmas
tree to be unwrapped.
There are numerous
variations you could add
to that scenario, such
as hanging or inserting
candy canes in
“special places” or
melting chocolate and
pouring it over those
“special places,”
(after it has cooled, of
course), to be licked
off.
Visit your local adult
toy store and fill a
stocking with a variety
of your lover’s
favorite naughty toys or
some new ones that you
have never tried as a
couple.
Hide a special gift such
as a lovely thong or
sexy briefs on the Xmas
tree for your lover to
find.
You could make a thong
out of ribbon and use
tinsel as your boa or
wrap around and dance
for your lover. You
could also put some
bells on your bows or
your ribbon for a little
added jingle.
Share a box of holiday
chocolates by feeding
them to one another with
your fingers and eating
them off each other’s
bodies. Don’t forget
to softly lick each
other’s fingers clean.
Show up at your
lover’s door wearing
sexy lingerie or nothing
under your coat and sing
them Xmas carols.
Make a homemade Xmas
card and insert a naked
photo of yourself.
Hang mistletoe
everywhere throughout
your house and kiss your
lover under every one of
them or strategically
place the mistletoe on
your body for your lover
to kiss each area.
Making love under the
Xmas tree with all the
lights off except the
tree lights can be very
romantic and fun.
Create a naughty Xmas
land by decorating your
bed and bedroom with
lights, tinsel, and
icicles.
Trim your tree naked or
wearing your hot Santa
boxers or sexy little
Elf costume.
String some popcorn and
wrap it around your body
for your lover to have a
little snack.
Put some holiday lights
or candles in the
bathroom, turn on your
favorite holiday tunes
and take a long sensual
bath together.
Give your lover a
homemade holiday coupon
that entitles them to an
evening of lovemaking of
their choice.
Present your lover with
their holiday gifts
wearing nothing but your
birthday suit or the
sexiest underwear you
can find. Don’t forget
your Santa hat!
Be sure to let your
lover know how much you
love them, how important
they are to you and how
much you appreciate
them, either by
whispering it sensuously
in their ear, writing it
lovingly in a poem, or
enclosing it in their
Xmas card.
Oh the opportunities are
about infinite. Use your
imagination, be creative
and have a fun and
passionate holiday.
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| About
the Author |
| Cynthia
Perkins, M.Ed., is a sex
advisor/educator and
writer specializing in
sexual intimacy and
keeping the fire alive.
She is also author of
the hot new sex guide
for couples titled,
“Smoldering Embers-Hot
Erotic Stories and Sex
Tips to Light a
Couple’s Fire. www.smolderingembers.com/
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