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Is
a Break Up Near?
by Nancy Fagan, M.S.
Not all relationships are
guaranteed to last...even if
you think they are perfect.
All you can do is keep an eye
on your behaviors as well as
his to recognize-and
fix-problem areas as soon as
you see them. The longer you
wait to address them, the more
difficult they will be to
repair.
Research
shows that the majority (96
percent) of breakups are
initiated by women. Although
this statistic may seem
comforting, for the women who
have been dumped, it is
anything but.
In
retrospect, most people
realize that the signs were
there all along, but chose to
ignore them. The most
significant sign was a
"gut" feeling that
something was wrong. A
person's gut is never wrong,
its purpose is for protection.
So, whatever you feel it
telling you, you
need to listen, even if your
partner denies it.
Other
common signs include the
following:
- Other
common signs include the
following:
- Visiting
dating Web sites;
- Not
marry you within three
years of dating;
- Being
secretive;
- Needing
more time and space away
from you;
- Forgetting
important dates;
- Behaviors
do not follow words
- Continued
friendship with ex
partners
- A
change in routine;
- Picking
fights about insignificant
things;
- Spending
less time together;
- Going
out with friends more;
- Not
expressing love as often;
- A
sudden burst of devotion
of love (this is usually a
guilt response to an
upcoming breakup).
Understanding
the unspoken is key to knowing
how strong a relationship is.
Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of
“The Complete Idiot’s
Guide to Romance” and
“Desirable Men: How to Find
Them.” To read more, visit http://www.expertdatingadvice.com/
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