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5
Ways To Improve Any
Relationship
By
Rinatta Paries
Want to improve your
relationships, both romantic
and otherwise? Want to grow in intimacy and
closeness with your friends,
family, co-workers, your
special someone? Then include
the following five easy steps into
your interactions with those important to you.
1. Acknowledge the big and the
little things. People want to
be seen. They want their actions,
attitudes, feelings and aspirations to be noticed and
acknowledged. Become a person
who notices.
2. Give thanks and
appreciation. Thank others and
they are more likely to do more of the same.
Why? Because being thanked
feels good. Tell them you appreciate
it too.
3. Give 'just because'
appreciation for who they are.
Make a list of what you admire about
your partner or another
person. Now share that list with them.
You don't have to wait for a special occasion. Surprise
that special person any time.
4. Take active interest. Take
a real interest in the things important to others. Listen to
them and have a conversation about their hobbies, career or
interests. Learn something new
about the topic. It will make
them feel understood and
important.
5. Do special things just for
them. Find out what others
like. Is it cards, flowers, a foot
rub, a dinner out? You may not
like or want these same things and
that's ok. Do something or
give something they like. Make them
feel special.
See how many of these you can
practice in one week with
special people in your life and watch
the intimacy in your
relationships grow.
(c) Rinatta Paries, 1998-2002.
Do you know how to attract
your ideal mate? Do you know how to
build a fulfilling
relationship, or how to reinvent yours to
meet your needs? Relationship
Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you
the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term,
healthy partnerships. Visit
www.WhatItTakes.com where
you'll find quizzes, classes,
advice and a free weekly ezine.
Become a "true love
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About the author:
Having coined the phrase
"relationship
coach," Master Certified Coach Rinatta Paries works
with singles to help them
attract their ideal relationship, and
helps couples create more love
and fulfillment in their existing
relationships. Visit her web
site
at www.WhatItTakes.com or
e-mail her at coach@WhatItTakes.com.
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