| 10
THINGS WOMEN HATE ABOUT
THE WAY MEN RESPOND (OR
NOT) ON DATING SITES
by Erika Lawal |
1. Starting profiles or
correspondence with
"God, this is so
hard! What do I say
about myself?" If
it's that hard, it
doesn't bode well for
the future…..
2. Beginning chat on
sites with "Hi, do
you fancy a
chat?". Women
often get inundated with
correspondence, so
something which stands
out from the rest is
needed.
3. Being overly sexual
in tone at the very
first exchange -
"I'd love fish pie
for dinner" is NOT
the way to attract a
lifelong mate.
4. Having a man
completely ignore the
profile you've spent
hours preparing, and him
writing "Wow!
You're gorgeous, tell me
about yourself and what
you do" - it's fine
to offer compliments,
but there's a danger
that she'll think you're
just after her for her
body if you don't do her
the courtesy of reading
her profile (yeah, we
know you're only
interested in her body,
but play the
game a little! :)).
5. Being asked to say
why you've declined the
advances of a man who's
ugly, with no
personality or
prospects, doing so
under duress (politely
of course) then him
being pissed because
he's been given the
truth!.....if you can't
stand the heat…..don't
ask!!
6. Men who don't bother
to write anything about
themselves, don't post
photos, then complain
that they never get any
responses from women -
like what is she
supposed to go on?
7. Men who don't bother
to write anything about
themselves, and expect
women to
"interview"
them; "right, what
do you want/need to know
about me?" It's
supposed to be fun guys,
not about presenting for
a job!
8. Cut-and-paste
jobs…especially when
the joins show!.
9. Being pestered after
you've made it clear you
aren't
interested.
10. Being dumped with no
explanation of what you
did or said that was so
wrong……
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| About
the Author |
| Erika
Lawal runs TheOnlineDatingShop.com
and describes it as
"like having a
know-it-all best friend
to hold your hand
through the dating
minefield", with
reviews, dating site
links, tips and
individualised
relationship counselling.
A straight talking and
qualified
psychotherapist, she
decided to take her
skills onto the Internet
after realizing that
singles need solid
information more often
than they need therapy!
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